By Linda Stuart & Diana Robinson During this time as many are acclimating to the new normal imposed by this pandemic, others are mourning alone as they attempt to absorb the reality that someone they love has died. Adding to their grief and inhibiting acceptance...
This article is a collaboration between Heike Mertins, author of “Grief is…” and Linda Stuart, creator of memorable ceremonies. Instinctively we come together when death happens. The need to be comforted and the need to offer comfort is part of what it means to...
“We were beside ourselves to hear that there were bananas in town,” she said with a smile, “so my mother sent me on a special shopping trip.” She continued, “On the crowded bus, I imagined what the sweet, tropical fruit would taste like and envisioned how excited my...
“But why do I still feel so sad,” he asked, his damp eyes circling mine for an answer. I took hold of the strong hands belonging to the man I adore and struggled to find words to reconcile his broken heart. “Honey, your mother died. You’re supposed to feel sad.” I...
“He wasn’t religious, so we didn’t have a funeral,” she told me. I was saddened to learn that my new friend had missed the opportunity to honour her wonderful husband’s life with a relevant and healing ceremony. She’d attended too many convenient, ready-made funerals...